Late father's house..

In Namibia
Last Updated: Nov 11, 2025
Is a long but will try to make it short, I stayed with my dad and some siblings at his house, when we finished school, my two brothers back to his mum, other one went to UK and my step sister,, I dnt know where she moved, so me stayed with date until I started work, and when I was in school he used to tell this is your house,, even I I told him dad let's repair new door then he would say I have paid this house now is you to fixed it cause, his not mine,, ok, stayed then later I thought now am old enough let my go rent out,, cause I wanted to expirience life outside with out a parent,,, I moved out 2010 he came back and told me please my child come back home that is your house there is no way I can give that house to anyone or if you dnt want then I will sell it,,,, I agree came back started talking care of bills and what ever needed to be fixed, so for five years or more I stayed with out work but I maintain the house with my tuckshop money and to sell my cattles,, in 2019 he asked my to consult a lawyer to confirm how much it will cost him to transfer the name but then I thought he have gave me a valuable thing let my just do it when I find job, he passed on 2024 without transferring the name the house is still on his name now my siblings want me to go out so we sell the house and share money, so me for all this years I will walk away with nothing, but then there is people even some of my siblings know that our father's said the day he passed on the house is for me, now this is what am getting after all the years I spent.. Here what can I do

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mohammad mehdi ghanbari

mohammad mehdi ghanbari

Nov 11, 2025

Hello

Based on the details you've provided, you are in a difficult and emotionally trying situation. Here is some information that may help you understand your legal position.

Dying Without a Will
When a person passes away without a valid will, it is known as dying "intestate". In such cases, the distribution of the deceased person's assets is governed by the intestacy laws of the state or country where they resided. These laws establish a predetermined hierarchy of heirs.​

Typically, the hierarchy for inheritance is as follows:

Surviving spouse​

Children​

Parents​

Siblings​

More distant relatives​

Since your father passed away without a will, his estate, including the house, would generally be divided among his children according to the rules of intestacy.​

Verbal Promises and "Proprietary Estoppel"
As a general rule, verbal promises regarding inheritance are not legally binding. However, there is a legal principle known as "proprietary estoppel" that can sometimes be used to enforce a verbal promise relating to property.​

To make a successful claim of proprietary estoppel, you typically need to prove three things:

Representation: There must have been a clear promise or assurance from the property owner. In your case, this would be your father's repeated statements that the house is yours.​

Reliance: You must have relied on that promise. Your actions of moving back into the house, paying for bills and repairs, and maintaining the property with your own money would demonstrate your reliance on your father's promise.​

Detriment: You must have suffered a detriment as a result of your reliance on the promise. This would include the money you spent on the house, as well as the time and labor you invested, and potentially the lost opportunity to buy your own property.​

If you can prove these three elements, a court may rule that it would be unjust for your father's estate to go back on the promise, and could order the property to be transferred to you.​

Proving Your Case
To enforce a verbal agreement, you will need to provide evidence to the court. The standard of proof in civil cases is the "balance of probabilities," which means you need to show that it is more likely than not that the verbal agreement existed.​

Evidence that could help you prove your case includes:

Witnesses: People who heard your father say the house would be yours, including some of your siblings, can provide powerful testimony.​

Your own testimony: You can provide a detailed account of the conversations you had with your father.​

Financial records: Receipts, bank statements, and any other documents that show you spent money on the upkeep and maintenance of the house can serve as evidence of your reliance on the promise and the detriment you suffered.

Your conduct: The fact that you lived in the house, cared for it, and made financial contributions for many years are actions that support your claim.​
 

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