Can a woman seek divorce from her husband if he cheated and got another lady to bear a child for him?
The marriage happened in 2019. No court wedding, just a church and a traditional wedding. Also, no child throughout the wedding period. Husband got another lady pregnant and bore a child for him while still married. Is this enough grounds to dissolve the marriage, and what's the best approach if the husband refuses to take back his bride price?
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Yes, a woman can seek dissolution of her marriage if her husband cheated and had a child with another woman while still married, as adultery is a recognized ground for divorce under Indian law, including for marriages performed traditionally or in church, not just through court registration.
Grounds for Divorce: Husband’s Adultery
Under Indian laws like the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, voluntary sexual intercourse by a spouse with another person outside the marriage is valid grounds for divorce, regardless of whether the marriage was formalized in court, a church, or through customary traditional ceremonies.
The birth of a child with another woman is clear evidence of adultery, making the case for divorce even stronger.
Lack of children in the marriage is not a barrier to filing for divorce on these grounds.
Process if Husband Refuses to Accept Return of Bride Price
In customary marriages, especially in contexts like Southern Nigeria, returning the bride price is often seen as formalizing divorce. If the husband refuses to accept the bride price, the woman can petition a court to dissolve the marriage, and the bride price may be paid into court instead of directly to the husband.
Divorce is not automatically prevented if the husband refuses to accept the bride price. Courts recognize this issue and provide mechanisms so that a woman is not indefinitely trapped in marriage due to such refusal.
The best approach is to initiate divorce proceedings in the appropriate court, presenting evidence of adultery and, if required, seeking the court’s assistance in resolving any issues about the bride price.
Key Steps to Take
File a divorce petition on the grounds of adultery, providing proof such as evidence of the husband’s relationship and the other child.
If a church or traditional wedding is involved, consult a lawyer familiar with both the legal and customary aspects, to ensure all procedures (including return/refusal of bride price) are properly addressed.
If the husband refuses to accept the return of the bride price, request the court for formal dissolution of marriage and for legal directive on handling the bride price.
This approach ensures that the woman’s rights are protected and the marriage can be legally and customarily dissolved, even in the face of resistance from the husband regarding the bride price.
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