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Child visitation - often called an omgangsregeling or contactregeling in Dutch - determines how and when a child spends time with a parent or other important adults after separation or when parents live apart. In the Netherlands, including Delft, the law aims to protect the best interests of the child while balancing the rights and responsibilities of parents and caregivers. Key legal elements include parental authority - called gezag - who the child lives with - verblijfsregeling - and the contact arrangement - omgangsregeling. Courts, mediators and local youth services may become involved if parents cannot agree on a workable arrangement.
Most parents try to reach an agreement about visitation themselves or with a mediator. You may need a lawyer when:
- Parents cannot agree on a contact schedule and negotiations or mediation fail.
- There are serious conflicts about where the child should live or which parent should have primary care.
- There are allegations of domestic violence, child abuse, addiction, or neglect - situations that may require urgent protective measures.
- One parent is refusing to comply with an existing court-ordered visitation arrangement.
- You need help drafting or checking an ouderschapsplan - the parenting plan that is required for a divorce with minor children.
- You are a grandparent or other third party seeking contact rights with a child.
- You need to apply for interim or enforcement measures such as supervised contact, suspension of unsupervised contact, or a court order to enforce visitation.
A lawyer can explain legal options, prepare and submit court paperwork, request provisional measures, represent you at hearings, and advise on enforcement steps if contact is blocked.
Relevant national and local legal principles that apply in Delft include:
- Parental authority and child welfare: Dutch family law emphasises the best interests of the child as the primary consideration. Parental authority - gezag - determines who may make major decisions about the child. In most cases both parents retain joint authority even after separation.
- Ouderschapsplan: When parents divorce and have minor children, they must submit an ouderschapsplan - a parenting plan describing residence, contact, and how major decisions will be taken. The courts review and approve such plans during divorce proceedings.
- Court involvement: If parents cannot agree, the family section of the local rechtbank can decide on residence and contact schedules. For urgent matters provisional measures can be requested.
- Mediation and dispute resolution: Mediation is commonly used and often encouraged before going to court. Certified family mediators help parents reach workable arrangements and may reduce delay and cost.
- Supervised contact and restrictions: Where child safety is a concern, courts or youth-care bodies may order supervised contact or restrict contact. Supervision may be arranged through municipal youth services or private providers.
- Enforcement: If a parent refuses to comply with a contact order the other parent can ask the court to enforce the order - for example by imposing fines or alternative measures. In urgent situations a request can be made for temporary measures.
- Local support and child protection: The municipal youth department and the Raad voor de Kinderbescherming (Child Protection Board) may become involved if there are welfare concerns. Local Delft youth services administer practical support, supervised visitation and family counselling under the Youth Act.
An ouderschapsplan is a written parenting plan that addresses residence, contact, holiday arrangements, education, and how parents will make important decisions for their child. When parents file for divorce and have children under 18, submitting an ouderschapsplan is mandatory. It helps the court and the parents to set clear expectations and reduce future disputes.
The court considers the best interests of the child, which include the child-safety, the child’s age and stage of development, the quality of existing relationships with each parent, practical logistics and the child’s views when appropriate. Courts prefer arrangements that promote regular, stable contact unless there is a compelling safety or welfare reason against it.
Yes. Grandparents and other significant persons can ask the court for contact rights if family arrangements break down. The court will assess whether contact is in the child’s best interests and look at the nature of the existing relationship. Success depends on the strength and history of the connection and on the child’s welfare.
If an agreed or court-ordered visitation is blocked, you can first try mediation, family counselling or ask your lawyer to send a formal request. If refusal continues, you may ask the court for enforcement measures or provisional orders. The court can impose sanctions, adjust the contact arrangement or order supervised contact. Keep careful records of incidents and communications to support your case.
Supervised visitation is ordered when there are concerns about safety or parenting risks. It places contact sessions under the supervision of a trained third party. Supervision can be provided by municipal youth services, private supervised-contact centers or court-appointed organisations. A lawyer or the court can request supervised contact if necessary.
For urgent problems that affect the child’s safety or welfare, the court can hear provisional or interim requests more quickly than full hearings. The speed depends on the court’s caseload and the urgency presented. Lawyers can request expedited hearings and provisional measures to protect the child while a full decision is prepared.
You can represent yourself in family law matters, but a lawyer helps with legal strategy, paperwork, and courtroom procedure, and can act quickly on enforcement or interim measures. If you have low income and small assets you might qualify for gesubsidieerde rechtsbijstand - subsidised legal aid - through the national legal aid scheme.
Costs vary by complexity. Fee elements include lawyer costs, court fees and any costs for mediation, supervised contact, or expert reports. Mediation is often less costly than litigation. If you meet income and asset criteria you may qualify for subsidised legal aid which covers part or all of the lawyer fees.
Where domestic violence or child abuse is present, courts prioritise safety. The court may limit or suspend unsupervised contact, order supervised contact, or grant sole residence and restrict visitation. Criminal proceedings, protection orders and child protection interventions can also influence family law decisions. If you fear for your safety or the safety of your child, seek immediate help from local authorities and explain this to your lawyer.
Local municipal youth services and family support programs can provide mediation, parenting support, supervised contact facilities and counselling. The Raad voor de Kinderbescherming may become involved in serious welfare concerns. The local courthouse handles family law applications. Ask the municipality for information on available programs and how supervised contact is arranged locally.
Useful local and national bodies and resources to consider when dealing with child visitation in Delft include:
- The local municipality's youth and family support services - for supervised contact, family counselling and practical help.
- The family section of the local rechtbank - for filing contact or custody applications and seeking provisional measures.
- The Raad voor de Kinderbescherming - for child welfare assessments and intervention when the child’s safety is at risk.
- Certified family mediators - for voluntary mediation to reach workable agreements without entering court.
- Subsidised legal aid - the national legal-aid authority handles applications for financial support for legal representation based on means-testing.
- Local supervised-contact organisations and youth-care providers - for organising and supervising safe contact sessions when required.
If you need legal assistance with child visitation in Delft, consider the following steps:
- Gather information: assemble records of communications, a timeline of incidents, any relevant reports or messages and notes about attempts to arrange or block contact.
- Try negotiation or mediation: where safe and feasible, try to reach an agreement through direct discussion or an accredited family mediator. Mediation can be quicker, less expensive and better for co-parenting long term.
- Contact local support services: reach out to municipal youth and family services to learn about supervised contact options, counselling and local resources.
- Seek legal advice: consult a family law lawyer experienced in Dutch child visitation matters to learn your legal rights and options. Ask about estimated costs and whether you qualify for subsidised legal aid.
- Consider safety: if there are safety concerns, prioritise immediate protective steps - contact police, child protection services or emergency municipal services as appropriate and inform your lawyer.
- Prepare for court if needed: if mediation fails and court action is necessary, your lawyer can prepare the application, request provisional measures where required, and represent you at hearings.
Child visitation matters are emotionally charged and legally technical. Getting early advice, documenting facts carefully and using local support services can protect your child’s welfare and improve the chances of a practical, sustainable arrangement.
