My wife cheated, disrespects me and also confirmed that she regrets marrying me.

It appears that the marriage has broken down irretrievably. This constitutes the valid ground for dissolution of marriage. The right step to take is to get a lawyer to file for divorce on your behalf in a competent court of law and move on with your life. If you require further advice, do not hesitate to get in touch. Thank you.

Hello: Based on your situation, where your wife has cheated, disrespected you, and even admitted regretting the marriage, there are several legal remedies available under Philippine law presuming this occurred within Philippine jurisdiction.

a.) Annulment of Marriage – You may file a Petition for Annulment before the Regional Trial Court, grounded on psychological incapacity under Article 36 of the Family Code. This is often used when a spouse shows habitual infidelity, emotional cruelty, or an inability to fulfill essential marital obligations. The repeated cheating and lack of remorse can be strong evidence of psychological incapacity.

b.) Legal Separation – If you prefer not to dissolve the marriage bond but wish to live apart legally, you may file for Legal Separation under Article 55 of the Family Code. Grounds include sexual infidelity, repeated physical violence, or gross disrespect. This will allow you to live separately and protect your properties and rights while remaining legally married.

c.) Criminal Complaint for Adultery – If your wife had a sexual relationship with another man while married to you, you may file a criminal complaint for Adultery under Article 333 of the Revised Penal Code. However, this requires evidence such as text messages, hotel receipts, or witness testimony, and both your wife and her lover must be included in the case.

d.) Protection of Property and Child Custody – If there are children involved, the court will prioritize their welfare. You may also seek judicial separation of property or ask the court to grant you custody if the mother’s behavior endangers the moral or emotional well-being of the children.

We at Recososa Law Firm can help you evaluate which legal option fits your circumstances best and guide you through the filing, evidence gathering, and psychological evaluation process. We have offices in Luzon, Visayas, and Mindanao. You may schedule an initial consultation via Google Meet/Zoom or an in-person meeting at any of our offices.

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